The Raw Numbers Does the slave cum at the end? If the subject has pleased me, then yes, he may orgasm at my command. A few of my heavily masochistic gentlemen experience sensory overload, preventing orgasm. They will have their genitals tightly bound and must masturbate while looking at my photo at a later time. If they have displeased me, they must use Ben-Gay as a lubricant! Length of time of the ordeal Anywhere from an hour to days at a time. % of the time the slave is hard A majority of my slaves will maintain an erection throughout our session. If it is obviously distracting him, a chasity belt will be used. # of times the subject is brought to hardness Several -- I enjoy using intense vibrators, as well as fur and my long fingernails to tease a slave into taking more pain for me. Men are so easy to manipulate! # of times the subject is brought flaccid If his erection distracting him, or getting on my nerves, I will use a glove full of ice tied tightly around his testicles to eliminate the problem. # of times the subject is brought to the edge of orgasm without release At least once -- a man must learn to ask permission! Repetition is necessary for proper learning. Is there a punishment for pre-cum? Punishment or humiliation. I have been known to force a submissive to lick in off. Is ejaculation without orgasm induced? Rarely, but it's been known to happen. Forced masturbation is a wonderful tool for that particular punishment. Does the session involve genital bondage? Always. I prefer tight twine or a leather bondage device with a lock. Are blue balls a goal? No, a consequence. Is lubrication used to prevent rawness or is this a desirable effect? I rarely use painless lubrication when using my vibrators. Do you include CBT intermixed with arousal states? Most definitely If so, what CBT methods are used? Several -- wax, clamps, stretching, fire play, electro-shock torture, abrasion, ice, weights, crushing...would you like for me to continue :)? The Scene What Role do you play in the scene: Mistress/slave, Nurse/patient, etc. ? What Role do you play in the scene: Mistress/slave, Nurse/patient, etc. ? Mistress, Warden, Doctor, Teacher, Executrix. Bondage How is he bound? Please describe his degree of mobility. I am known for my love of heavy bondage, particulary leather and rope. Intricate Japanese rope bondage is one of my favorite techniques -- it can be completely immobolizing. If a submissive insists on struggling, he will be hung upside down, 6 feet off of my dungeon floor until he accepts his fate. If there is more than one position please describe and indicate how long they are held in each position. I can and will keep a slave in bondage for hours at a time if necessary. My stretching rack is a favorite, as are my suspension devices. A leather straitjacket is extremely confining and comfortable for long term restriction. Visual Stimulation How are you dressed? I prefer leather and thigh-high boots with skyscrapper heels. at what points do you allow him to gaze and lust for you? during arousal, during cool down, both? Usually both -- I am one of the few Mistresses who prefer eye contact with their submissives. Blindfolds are used for punishment. Sound Stimulations what kinds of verbal stimulants do you use? My voice is sufficient. do you use silence? Occasionally, but only if eye contact is maintained. what kinds of sounds do you like him to make? Begging. do you gag him? Sometimes. Forcing a leather gloved hand over his mouth works nicely as well. Frictional Stimulations how much direct stimulation do you provide? I will use a vibrator -- sometimes in a teasing manner, other times using painful, intense and direct pressure. what percentage of the time that he is hard are you providing that stimulation? A small percentage -- men will get an erection by simply staring at what (or whom) they desire. does he have provide his own stimulation - stroking for you? I only allow a submissive to masturbate in my presence to humiliate himself. how do you know when he is truly on the brink? By looking in his eyes and reading his body language. how do you know when to start and stop stimulations? Same as above Controlling his mind is he under strict orders not to cum? Yes. what are the consequences if he disobeys? Many and varied. His punishment will be something he fears -- ranging from a heavy whipping to the silent treatment. do you ever trick him to think you will let him cum only to deny him in the end? Yes. do you ever over stimulate him on purpose while telling him not to cum while knowing he will be unable to resist your stimulation? When I am in a particularly cruel mood, yes. Surrender at what point do you wish him to begin to beg? As soon as it's obvious to both of us that his suffering is only beginning. how do you handle begging for orgasm? I laugh and tell him to try harder! is there something he could say that would lead you to have mercy and let him cum? No. I could be promised the sun, moon, and stars and I will show no mercy. The Aftermath How do the subjects respond to you when you send them away? Very positively -- most thank me and want a hug! How do you think this treatment effects their future sex life? I hope so. Pre-mature ejaculation is *such* a problem with the male species. If they ever hope to keep a woman satisfied, they must learn to control themselves. What % of men do you feel have increased their lust via this treatment? A great deal. I believe they realize how much their sex lives can be improved by orgasm delay/denial. Deep down, most men truly want to please a woman sexually -- the training they receive from their Mistress will help them reach this goal. MISTRESS JESSE ...a very sensual dominant who loves binding & teasing men for the purpose of intensifying not only his sexuality but mine. email Address: MsJesse@aol.com Web space URL: www.jagworld.com/msjesse.htm Phone: 703-264-1251 I am a true lifestyle Mistress who sees not only clients but personal subs who enjoy a sensual, intense style of domination which combines erotic pain and pleasure. I am fully equipped, not much I can't or won't do, and will answer all letters or inquiries. The Raw Numbers Does the slave cum at the end? Yes, unless I'm punishing him or training him for something. Length of time of the ordeal Usually several hours. % of the time the slave is hard 90% # of times the subject is brought to hardness Varies, usually 6 or more # of times the subject is brought flaccid Not allowed frequently # of times the subject is brought to the edge of orgasm without release Consistently. Is there a punishment for pre-cum? No, but I often rub it on his lips. Is ejaculation without orgasm induced? Seldom. Does the session involve genital bondage? During part of the session, yes, often with shoe laces or stockings. Are blue balls a goal? Definitely. Is lubrication used to prevent rawness or is this a desirable effect? Yes, usually baby oil. Do you include CBT intermixed with arousal states? Yes. If so, what CBT methods are used? Clothes pins, hand slapping, cock whip. For hard core players catheters, Q-tips, Ben Gay. The Scene What Role do you play in the scene: Mistress/slave, Nurse/patient, etc. ? It varies with each partner but I perfer Mistress/slave, it's more natural & not staged. Bondage How is he bound? Please describe his degree of mobility. On his back on a big bed, arms tied to the sides, legs in pulleys in a V-formation, room for me to be over his face at times.. If there is more than one position please describe and indicate how long they are held in each position. I often start with bondage stocks or him shackled to a cross, standing up for 30 mins, then proceed to the bed for the remaining hours.. Visual Stimulation How are you dressed? Varies with partner, sometimes leather or vinyl, sometimes lingerie. at what points do you allow him to gaze and lust for you? during arousal, during cool down, both? Both. I often have another male to interact with in front of the sub. Sound Stimulations what kinds of verbal stimulants do you use? Verbal teasing & taunting, laughing, humiliation, sometimes with others. do you use silence? I often leave the room, instructing him to stay hard until I return. what kinds of sounds do you like him to make? I love moaning & groaning, begging. do you gag him? Seldom. other sound stimulations: Erotic background music or me playing or talking with someone else.. Frictional Stimulations how much direct stimulation do you provide? Throughout the entire session, also using not only hands & body parts but vibrating massagers & toys as well. what percentage of the time that he is hard are you providing that stimulation? 100%. does he have provide his own stimulation - stroking for you? No. how do you know when he is truly on the brink? I can sense it, feel it with my hands. how do you know when to start and stop stimulations? From lots of experience, I read men very well. Controlling his mind is he under strict orders not to cum? Not really, I take it when I decide I'm ready. what are the consequences if he disobeys? 1 week with no orgasms or contact with me. how often do you remind him that he cannot cum? what language do you use? I remind him that he has no choice in the matter do you ever trick him to think you will let him cum only to deny him in the end? On a few occasions, yes. do you ever over stimulate him on purpose while telling him not to cum while knowing he will be unable to resist your stimulation? Yes, it's extremely erotic to have that much control over another's body. Surrender at what point do you wish him to begin to beg? They usually start by the end of the first hour. how do you handle begging for orgasm? It makes no difference to me, I decide when to let it happen. Begging is a very big turn-on for me. is there something he could say that would lead you to have mercy and let him cum? No. do you engage in inducing ejaculation without orgasm? what are your specific methods? No, it has only happened with one person. The Aftermath How do the subjects respond to you when you send them away? Like lost puppies. How do you think this treatment effects their future sex life? I think it is very addicting & makes it difficult to enjoy continuous vanilla sex. What % of men do you feel have increased their lust via this treatment? All of them. MISTRESS M email Address: mistresshi@hotmail.com I simply adore CBT, NT, diaper, enema, anal, fem, chastity, spanking as well as a few others. I sometimes permit my sub to get hard, but he must stay that way... sometimes touching may be allowed... other times he must use his own imagination to stay hard. 2 Minute/1 Minute Game... The Raw Numbers Does the slave cum at the end? Only sometimes, other times he is NOT permitted Length of time of the ordeal anywhere from 30 minutes to 15 hours % of the time the slave is hard 90% # of times the subject is brought to hardness at least 10 # of times the subject is brought flaccid depends on the situation, sometimes 2 # of times the subject is brought to the edge of orgasm without release 5+ Is there a punishment for pre-cum? yes... a cock spanking Is ejaculation without orgasm induced? sometimes Does the session involve genital bondage? yes, at times Are blue balls a goal? yes Is lubrication used to prevent rawness or is this a desirable effect? sometimes Do you include CBT intermixed with arousal states? Yes. If so, what CBT methods are used? tying the balls <---O O---> and the cock either upwards or downwards. Also the use of water. The Scene What Role do you play in the scene: Mistress/slave, Nurse/patient, etc. ? Mistress Bondage How is he bound? Please describe his degree of mobility. His arms are tied behind him, legs are cuffed along with spreader bar. Visual Stimulation How are you dressed? leather and heels at what points do you allow him to gaze and lust for you? during arousal, during cool down, both? during cool down please list all other visual stimulations he experiences my shoes/boots Sound Stimulations what kinds of verbal stimulants do you use? music and my voice do you use silence? not very often what kinds of sounds do you like him to make? I adore whimpering do you gag him? if I think he's making too much noise Frictional Stimulations how much direct stimulation do you provide? very little what percentage of the time that he is hard are you providing that stimulation? 5% does he have provide his own stimulation - stroking for you? yes he does how do you know when he is truly on the brink? he seems to have stopped breathing how do you know when to start and stop stimulations? when that little twinkle starts in his eyes or when he starts to enjoy himself Controlling his mind is he under strict orders not to cum? yes he is only permitted to cum when I allow him to do so. what are the consequences if he disobeys? a serious spanking how often do you remind him that he cannot cum? what language do you use? perhaps twice... normal firm voice do you ever trick him to think you will let him cum only to deny him in the end? Yes I have.... when he's begged, I've smiled... he's thought that I would... but I didn't do you ever over stimulate him on purpose while telling him not to cum while knowing he will be unable to resist your stimulation? A few times Surrender at what point do you wish him to begin to beg? perhaps after I have had my fun how do you handle begging for orgasm? if I have decided that I will let him cum... then he begs, well he can forget it for the night. is there something he could say that would lead you to have mercy and let him cum? No there is not! It's up to me!. do you engage in inducing ejaculation without orgasm? what are your specific methods? No The Aftermath How do the subjects respond to you when you send them away? they want to know when they can come back again How do you think this treatment effects their future sex life? I think they will treat the women in their life a lot nicer! What % of men do you feel have increased their lust via this treatment? 75% Mistress Miranda email Address: miranda@firmcontrol.com Web space URL: www.firmcontrol.com Mistress Miranda maintains an elegant dungeon in San Francisco, where She trains submissives, and engages in some of Her favorite activities including: bondage, genitorture, corporal punishment, humiliation, mind games, age play, pony training, and medical scenes. Professional sessions are available for males and females prepared to submit to strict, sensuous, Feminine control. The Raw Numbers Does the slave cum at the end? The slave never really knows what is going to happen at the end. The ordeal usually intensifies as the slave gets closer to an orgasm, whether or I allow satisfaction. % of the time the slave is hard Most males are hard almost all the time, but it can be enjoyable to toy with a man, deny him the pleasure of looking at Me or touching Me, and wilt his hard-on with little pricks to his ego. Then I might change My tone and build him up again. I occasionally need My subject to be in a flaccid state, in order to put him in certain chastity devices. Becoming hard again is inevitable, but torturous when the cock is in restrictive bondage. Leaving a slave with a long-term, unrelieved hard-on is also delightfully enjoyable. Is there a punishment for pre-cum? males who drip pre-cum naturally must be punished for their messiness. This might involve cleaning up after himself with his tongue. For an extra measure of humiliation repeat offenders might have to wear an absorbent undergarment, such as a diaper or sanitary pad. This differs from My treatment of a female slave, in whom I view wetness as a highly desirable state, for which she is rewarded. Does the session involve genital bondage? I use genital bondage for many purposes: instead of a collar to show My ownership, as a leash, to enforce chastity, as a form of endurance bondage, as a psychological torment. Are blue balls a goal? Blue balls are a natural and desirable consequence of continual arousal and denial. Do you include CBT intermixed with arousal states? Yes. The hope of a little pleasure goes a long way towards enticing a submissive to endure torture. If so, what CBT methods are used? This is an area of specialty for Me. I have an arsenal of insidious devices for restraining and tormenting the cock, including harnesses, weights, electrical toys, needles, sounds, crushers, whips, and clamps. I enjoy using electrical toys, clamps, needles, and whips on female submissives as well. The pain I can inflict using only My hands, knees, and fingernails must not be taken lightly. The Scene What Role do you play in the scene: Mistress/slave, Nurse/patient, etc. ? I enjoy being the Mistress, and Feminine Disciplinarian. Both of these roles are very real for Me. I also enjoy medical scenes, age play, and equestrian training, which are extensions of My basic role as Female Dominant. Bondage How is he bound? Please describe his degree of mobility. If there is more than one position please describe and indicate how long they are held in each position. I enjoy bondage that severely restricts the slave's ability to move. Hog-ties, spread-eagle positions, and suspensions, are all favorites of Mine. I also use bondage as a visual stimulant for Myself. At the peak of the slave's enjoyment of the position, I like to change it. Visual Stimulation How are you dressed? I dress for comfort and I happen to be most comfortable in very high heels, stockings, corsets, and very short dresses. If My slave has a fetish, I enjoy flaunting the fetishized object while she is held in bondage. At what points do you allow him to gaze and lust for you? during arousal, during cool down, both? Not only do I allow a man's gaze to increase his lust, but I often tease his other senses, such as smell and touch, in enslaving him. Teasing the slave during arousal, without allowing her satisfaction, helps keep her under control. I find that many women are especially responsive to tactile and verbal teasing. During cool down, many males are particularly vulnerable, and open to suggestion. A slave often wants to be reassured that I am pleased with him, and, if I am, I praise him. This is often the time that I introduce a new, and erotic, idea, something to think about until I'm willing to see him again. It's a hypnotic suggestion, preparing him for the scene I want to do next. The cool down with My female submissives is somewhat different, and happens more slowly. I often allow extra time for female submissives to talk about the experience after the scene. Sound Stimulations what kinds of verbal stimulants do you use? My voice is very expressive of My desire. I also use it to play with My slave's mind. I enjoy phone training, and find that My seductive voice is very persuasive. If, however, a submissive fails to think that I am serious, I am capable of taking a much harsher tone. do you use silence? Constant chatter is unnecessary. A submissive whose talk annoys Me will be gagged. what kinds of sounds do you like him to make? I like to hear begging, heavy breathing, moaning, and pleading for relief. Frictional Stimulations what percentage of the time that he is hard are you providing that stimulation? The presence of a beautiful Woman such as Myself is quite stimulating enough to make a slave hard. If, for some reason, I want an erection to go away I know how to remove pleasurable feelings or override them with painful sensations. There are many ways to make a woman wet, and I do not rest until I can trigger her responsiveness at will. Controlling his mind is he under strict orders not to cum? A male submissive is also a gentleman. It is clear from the beginning that a gentleman most certainly does not attempt to cum unless he is under strict orders to do so. If he does not already realize it, I let him know that his cock and balls belong to Me. When and how they are used is entirely up to Me. Should he have an accident, he will feel gravely humiliated, so I remind him often that he is not allowed to cum. I speak to him in a soft, clear, firm, voice, much as I use when giving commands to My dog. The same rules apply to a female submissive whose genitalia and pleasure also belong to Me . what are the consequences if he disobeys? A woman who ejaculates prematurely, or without permission has to endure whatever punishment I decide to give her, without being aroused. I may blindfold her and punish her in silence, as an extra measure of denial. Of course there are times when I withhold permission to cum, even if I've led the submissive so close to the edge that she can't help but go over. The same rules apply to male submissives. Surrender at what point do you wish him to begin to beg? A submissive usually has to beg to get anything at all. how do you handle begging for orgasm? When a slave is begging for orgasm I know the slave is ready to do anything I want, things he or she may have been previously reticent to do. is there something he could say that would lead you to have mercy and let him cum? Actions always speak louder than words. I often give a slave a final opportunity to perform for Me and earn an orgasm. The Aftermath How do the subjects respond to you when you send them away? Many of My subjects request email training, or personal effects, to help them stay in contact with Me between scenes. This brings continuity to the subject's training. How do you think this treatment effects their future sex life? One of the best things that can happen is that a man can feel more humble in the presence of a Woman, and learn to be more concerned with the Woman's pleasure than his own. Women benefit from having permission to explore their fantasies, and from experiencing a very feminine Woman as dominant. Some of My female submissives are switches who have submissives of their own. What % of men do you feel have increased their lust via this treatment? All men and women can increase their lust through this treatment. Lady Lilith email Address: DominaDear@aol.com Web space URL: http://www.ile-mall.com/lilith/index.htm Lady Lilith is a professional domina in the Central Valley area of California and does fetish and fantasy role plays as well as being an accomplished sensual sadist. She sees clients by advance appointment only, and only those who share at least some of her interests. Interrogation is a speciality of hers, especially when she's sharing a client with her close friend Mistress Littlestar. The Raw Numbers Does the slave cum at the end? Depends on my mood. Usually yes. Length of time of the ordeal 1-4 hours % of the time the slave is hard 40-75% # of times the subject is brought to hardness 5-15 times # of times the subject is brought flaccid 0-5 # of times the subject is brought to the edge of orgasm without release 1-5 Is there a punishment for pre-cum? Usually being made to eat it. Is ejaculation without orgasm induced? No. Does the session involve genital bondage? Usually yes. Often in forms that cause movement of the subject to pull on the scrotum. Are blue balls a goal? No. Is lubrication used to prevent rawness or is this a desirable effect? Yes, usually. If it's being done for punishment, the lubrication can take the form of icy hot, or include salt mixed in the lube. Do you include CBT intermixed with arousal states? Always. If so, what CBT methods are used? Cock bondage, clamps, clips, ointments and hot liquids, electrotorture, needles, cock flogging, cropping, feathers, ice, hot wax, firesticks, horsehair, scratching, slapping and anything else that strikes my fancy. The Scene What Role do you play in the scene: Mistress/slave, Nurse/patient, etc. ? Usually Mistress/slave. Sometimes Doctor/test animal/patient. Bondage How is he bound? Please describe his degree of mobility. usually cuffed to the wall, and sometimes with spreader bars. I usually prefer the legs free and just command him to keep them open so he has to willingly participate in his own torment. If there is more than one position please describe and indicate how long they are held in each position. Sometimes I cause them to be chained to the wall in a standing posture. It all depends on my mood. Sometimes they are caused to kneel and to stimulate themselves as I watch. Visual Stimulation How are you dressed? Leather, as a governess, in lingerie, in latex, sometimes in a cocktail dress. Sometimes in a lab coat or in a leather jacket and hat. Dressing is MY choice. The subject may state a preference, but I will dress as suits me. at what points do you allow him to gaze and lust for you? during arousal, during cool down, both? I don't do naked. I often have the subject blindfolded for at least part of the session. At the end, he will be allowed to look at me as I like eye contact during CBT and denial. please list all other visual stimulations he experiences. Being shown toys that I may not actually use on him, but which look horrific. Sound Stimulations what kinds of verbal stimulants do you use? My voice is enough. I do not do verbal humiliation. I mostly am very encouraging. do you use silence? Rarely. I usually have background music playing. what kinds of sounds do you like him to make? Moans are always good. do you gag him? Only if he's screaming. I hate to involve my neighbors. please list all other sound stimulations he experiences. Background music, and if one of my friend's is present, SHE may be doing some commenting on his behavior and attributes. Frictional Stimulations how much direct stimulation do you provide? If you mean masturbation of the subject, I do not do that. what percentage of the time that he is hard are you providing that stimulation? N/a does he have provide his own stimulation - stroking for you? Yes. how do you know when he is truly on the brink? I give him orders to tell me. how do you know when to start and stop stimulations? It's always a whim. please list all other direct frictional stimulations he experiences. None. Controlling his mind is he under strict orders not to cum? Yes. NEVER without permission. And he may not STOP masturbating unless I give him permission. what are the consequences if he disobeys? He must ingest his own ejaculate and he will be given pain. how often do you remind him that he cannot cum? what language do you use? Very often. I use English. do you ever trick him to think you will let him cum only to deny him in the end? Yes. do you ever over stimulate him on purpose while telling him not to cum while knowing he will be unable to resist your stimulation? Verbally. Surrender at what point do you wish him to begin to beg? Whenever it seems natural for it to happen in the scene. how do you handle begging for orgasm? Usually I laugh. Or ask him if he's really serious or if he deserves to come. is there something he could say that would lead you to have mercy and let him cum? Not really. do you engage in inducing ejaculation without orgasm? what are your specific methods? No. The Aftermath How do the subjects respond to you when you send them away? Usually very nicely. Hugs and such. How do you think this treatment effects their future sex life? Probably not much. What % of men do you feel have increased their lust via this treatment? Maybe 10% I don't think most of them increase anything due to this treatment. Except for possibly getting a better control on their ejaculation. Lady J I am a sensual, sadistic and creative Mistress. I particularly enjoy CBT, Nipple Torture, Bondage, Cross Dressing my slaves and other areas. I have LOTS of fun at what I do or it would not be worth doing! I have a fully equipped dungeon and I love to use it! email Address: ladyj@ladyj.com Web space URL: http://www.ladyj.com Phone: 508 655 0337 Address: 1257 Worcester Rd. # 259, Framingham, MA 01701-5217I The Raw Numbers Does the slave cum at the end? I am a terrible tease ....... Length of time of the ordeal Anywhere from an hour to days % of the time the slave is hard It varies but generally 90% # of times the subject is brought to hardness It is usually not a matter of soft or hard but degrees....multiple # of times the subject is brought flaccid See above # of times the subject is brought to the edge of orgasm without release I am a relentless tease..... Is there a punishment for pre-cum? It is improbable due to the genital bondage Is ejaculation without orgasm induced? No, not allowed Does the session involve genital bondage? Absolutely!!! That is the first thing I do in a session after applying the collar and cuffs. For I believe that if you control the genitals you control the man.... and I love the control!!! Are blue balls a goal? Not necessarily a goal but does occur since my scenes are usually very intense. Remember I am a tease. Is lubrication used to prevent rawness or is this a desirable effect? Not necessary since I always use condoms to prevent any unwanted fluids from getting on my equipment. Do you include CBT intermixed with arousal states? Absolutely! As I said I love to tease the male species and I love the control !! If so, what CBT methods are used? Everything from bondage to elctricity to temporary piercings and everything in between.( Very Evil Grin) The Scene What Role do you play in the scene: Mistress/slave, Nurse/patient, etc. ? Mistress, Interrogator, Boss/subordinate and other creative scenarios Bondage "I love bondage!" How is he bound? Please describe his degree of mobility. I particularlly love rope bondage,either free standing or to equipment such as the bondage chair which leaves the genitals fully exposed and lots of attachment points or maybe on the rack stretched out on top and legs helplessly tied above your head to a spreader bar. The options are endless. I also use a variety of leather restraints, saran wrap or maybe the latex body bag with special opening for access. Bondage can be light or totally immobile, sometimes overnight. If there is more than one position please describe and indicate how long they are held in each position. Usually there is a minimum of two positions and sometimes many more depending on the time involved and my interests.....it varies Visual Stimulation "Vision is only one of all the senses that are involved. I am a big part of their visual stimulation as well as what I am doing or about to do to them." How are you dressed? I am frequently fetish dressed in leather ,latex or PVC and Heels or boots. I also have a fetish for corsettes so i will often have a corsette on. I also dress for special scenarios. at what points do you allow him to gaze and lust for you? during arousal, during cool down, both? Often it is both but not always. Sometimes denial of what one is dying to see gives me that much more control. On the other hand, when they see my petite frame wearing say a leather outfit with tight corsette and black thigh highs with 5" heels they are instantly under my control. especially when they can't touch me or themselves if you catch my drift...... please list all other visual stimulations he experiences. The visual experience of the dungeon itself , the equipment and the possibilities....... I also use mirrors so that they can see what is happening to them. Sound Stimulations "I use my voice, music and sometimes the sound of me preparing equipment that they can not see. The anticipation can be a stimulant as well." what kinds of verbal stimulants do you use? I use whispering alot. I tell them what may lie ahead for them or how they are falling under my control. Also be very careful what you ask for ......... do you use silence? I do. It leaves them guessing what kinds of sounds do you like him to make? I do like moaning and begging. And even his breath quickening or becoming breathless.I like responsive slaves. do you gag him? Sometimes I do especially if they are overly chatty or if they try to protest too much. I also like to gag them for sensuous reasons like with my leather clad hand or to make them even more vulnerable. Frictional Stimulations how much direct stimulation do you provide? Stimulation can be many things visual,tactile and psyche. All are important parts. In terms of tactile stimulation, I love to use toys frequently through out the session which are not just limited to the genital area but has a direct effect. what percentage of the time that he is hard are you providing that stimulation? Most of the time through mind , tactile and visual. does he have provide his own stimulation - stroking for you? No! I don't cosider stroking something that is done for me. how do you know when he is truly on the brink? I watch his face and body language, intution and experience. please list all other direct frictional stimulations he experiences. It is not neccisarily frictional. It may be clips, electricity, hot wax, ice, crushing or stretching devices to name a few. Controlling his mind "This is a part of the whole experience" is he under strict orders not to cum? Yes. what are the consequences if he disobeys? Punishment of my choosing. how often do you remind him that he cannot cum? what language do you use? It depends on the situation. I use a firm voice. I have slaves that literally do not cum or even play with themselves for days at my direction. But remember, The more excited you are the more intense it is. It keeps me on their mind long after they leave my dungeon. They can't stop. do you ever trick him to think you will let him cum only to deny him in the end? I am a terrible tease and I am very good at it......... do you ever over stimulate him on purpose while telling him not to cum while knowing he will be unable to resist your stimulation? I am intense and the bondage is tight. Surrender at what point do you wish him to begin to beg? It varies, some start begging quite early but it does them no good Alththough I do like begging. how do you handle begging for orgasm? I use it to tease and humiliate them. is there something he could say that would lead you to have mercy and let him cum? No!!! Denial keeps me on their mind long after they leave my dugeon and THAT is a very powerful thing. do you engage in inducing ejaculation without orgasm? what are your specific methods? No! The Aftermath How do the subjects respond to you when you send them away? Many say that they have never had such an experience before and want to return to see me. They may vary in their responses but all are very positive and respectful. How do you think this treatment effects their future sex life? They have a new perspective and they never forget it and frequently pursue it. What % of men do you feel have increased their lust via this treatment? A high majority. Ms.Sophie Sinclair A warm & wicked hello from Ms. Sophie Sinclair, Masturbatrix extraordinarre. My technique is best described as a combination of "Whap!" style maternal discipline and "Leg Show" squirt teasing. A nastily nurturing and sensually firm manner coupled with erotic mind control and teasing has been extremely successful in the induction and continued training of my darling badboys. I'm here to breath life into the submissive onanists fantasies, and to provide a sensual, structured, tease & train program. Your seed is mine to harvest when I see fit... in my time, in my fashion. More a Masturbatrix than a Dominatrix, I offer intelligent, intense, caring and discrete phone consultations, as well as e-mail domination. Surrender yourself to bliss, badboy. You'll be so glad you did. email Address: VelvetVox1@aol.com Web space URL: www.xtratalk.com Phone: 805-474-9934 Address: 1250 Grand Avenue Suite# 239 Arroyo Grande, CA. 93420 The Raw Numbers Does the slave cum at the end? Only if he's been a very good boy for me, or if I would enjoy for him to offer up his creamy tribute during that particular session. I often leave them wondering throughout the session until the last few moments. Length of time of the ordeal This varies from 30 minutes to 2 weeks, depending on the slave, his particular level of advancement, and most importantly, my mood. % of the time the slave is hard This is dependent in part on the length of the session. Generally, I have very little use for a limp pull toy, unless an extreme sissy is attached to it. I want my boys thick with cum for me throughout the session. I like to hear their hard on in their voice as we play,and watch it bobbing stiffly as they jump through my hoops. For extended sessions an estimate of 70% is suitable. # of times the subject is brought to hardness During extended sessions, this varies from 5 to 10 times. # of times the subject is brought flaccid Again, this varies from 5 to 10 times. # of times the subject is brought to the edge of orgasm without release Oh, over and over and over again! I call them "cock drills". Having been cautioned beforehand as to the punishment for losing control, he brings his naughty member to the very edge and then must beg me for permission to stop before orgasming. Its delightful! Is there a punishment for pre-cum? Teasing and shaming and making the jerky-boy eat his precum are fun andeffective tools. I love to tell them how shameless their drippy cocks are, to point out their obvious need. Is ejaculation without orgasm induced? In some cases, yes. Does the session involve genital bondage? I adore a bit of cock and ball bondage. It helps those who have hair triggers to maintain control during particularly intense sessions. The site of a slaves cock swelling aroung the binding is one that brings me great erotic pleasure. Are blue balls a goal? Not only are they a goal, they are a means to an end. Having trouble with a slave? Put him on cum restriction and then proceed to tease him into fits. Give it a week or two and he'll be more attentive and obedient than ever! With a little effort its quite easy to lead a man around by the "meat leash" between his legs. Is lubrication used to prevent rawness or is this a desirable effect? I love the use of lubricants. They make for such a nice shine. Also, the sight of lotion, white and creamy, oozing up between tightly gripped fingers is powerfully erotic. Precum is my favorite lubricant. It froths around the head during stroking and looks particularly wicked. Rawness, however, does have its place. The more depraved and disobedient jerky-boys are often made to pull it raw and then pull it some more. Pain and pleasure intermingle till they don't know where one ends and the other begins. Do you include CBT intermixed with arousal states? Sometimes, with those needed a firmer approach employing intense body work. If so, what CBT methods are used? I employ wax, clothespins, and bath mitts to help keep a slave focused on the importance of controlling his selfish urges. Squeezing and slapping also produce nice results. The Scene What Role do you play in the scene: Mistress/slave, Nurse/patient, etc. ? Being a multifaceted dominant, I enjoy many different roles. My favorite roles are: Rubber Nurse/Masturbatrix, Mommy-Dommy, and , of course Teaser. Bondage How is he bound? Please describe his degree of mobility. I use bondage to further heighten a slave's sense of helplessness. I enjoy binding hands above the head using satin sashes or fur lined restraints. There is also a company that makes an incredible panty which actually has a hood sewn into the panty crotch. These have proven extremely effective in training. For those craving a Rubber Nurse Masturbatrix scene, copious amounts of plastic wrap from ankle to chest (leaving genitals exposed) totally inhibits free movement and reinforces the subjects powerlessness. Cut off from other tactile stimuli they are made to focus directly on the sensations I evoke between their legs. If there is more than one position please describe and indicate how long they are held in each position. Visual Stimulation How are you dressed? My mood and the scene itself dictate my manner of dress. Of course, for the Rubber Nurse Masturbatrix scene, I wear a white tight latex nurses uniform, opera length vinyl gloves, sheer stockings and wickedly high stilettos. My normal manner of dress tends to be sexily cut, classic business wear. Silk blouses, pencil skirts, a pinstiped skirt suit with a red sheer blouse. My hair is usually worn in a smooth, elegant French Twist. Red lips and nails and exquisite lingerie compliment the quiet message being sent to the submissive. at what points do you allow him to gaze and lust for you? during arousal, during cool down, both? I enjoy a slave's eyes on me, drinking me in, at all times. Unless he's being shamed when its natural for them to cast their gaze downward, or when I approach them from behind. When employing the latter approach, its all touch and voice and the smell of a woman that envelopes the slave. Yum! please list all other visual stimulations he experiences. Men are so visual. The flash of my stocking tops, a pantyline, my petite well manicured hand wrapped around their engorged pole, the slow drip of warmed oil being dripped from my fingertips onto their fevered flesh, watching me hovering just inches from his face slowly pleasuring myself or licking the heel of my stilettos...there are so many variances in the visual stimuli! Sound Stimulations what kinds of verbal stimulants do you use? As a seasoned and enthusiastic phone fantasy consultant, I employ a huge arsenal of verbal stimuli in both phone sessions and in my personal exchanges with my lover. Tone, inflection, pitch and word grouping are powerful tools to enhance your command in a scene. Keeping a slave off balance with carefully timed questions, comments, and observations lends such magic to a session! do you use silence? Yes, sparingly. I use silence to throw a slave off balance during the heat of a scene, or to emphasize how empty his world would be without my voice, like raw honey enveloping him. what kinds of sounds do you like him to make? Ummm...I do like a noisy slave! Moans, gutteral lust choked pleas, whimpers, all delight me. They must be sincere and not just rote responses. do you gag him? Sometimes. I enjoy slipping off my panties and gently tucking them into a slaves mouth bit by bit with either my fingers or the tip of my shoes. I love to question the slave while gag. His muffled frantic replies thrill me! other sound stimulations: The sound of stilettos clicking on hard wood floors, a slow unzipping of my skirt, the sound of busy fingers in the sticky folds of my sex, the sound of his hand slicky sliding back and forth, the metallic snicking of my Calibri lighter. Frictional Stimulations how much direct stimulation do you provide? This depends on the slave and my mood. When I'm feeling particularly predatory the lucky boy is apt to get lots of direct stimulation. Sometimes, I only allow them to frottage my stockinged legs. what percentage of the time that he is hard are you providing that stimulation? Between 30% and 65% of the time does he have provide his own stimulation - stroking for you? Oh yes, yes, yes! I have a fetishistic leaning toward watching men masturbate. I insist on this form of entertainment frequently. how do you know when he is truly on the brink? You can hear it in a mans voice, and immediately before reaching orgasm the penis becomes very hot and further engorged. Copious amount of precum can be a good indicator, also. how do you know when to start and stop stimulations? There is a definite knack to this. It varies from subject to subject. Careful observation is the only way to pinpoint this. Generally, if he begins to buck into your fist and groan gutterally its time to cool him down. please list all other direct frictional stimulations he experiences. "Pocket pussy's" are fun stimulation toys, as are panties, stockings, patent leather heels, leg humping, and pillow humping. Controlling his mind is he under strict orders not to cum? All my slaves learn that their seed is mine to harvest as I see fit. In my time, in my fashion. It is a tribute they offer up to me when they have proved themselves worthy of the privilege. So, yes, they are obliged to save their squirt for me. what are the consequences if he disobeys? I allow him to apologize and think all is forgiven. It is during our next session that he is punished. I generally allow him to think all is well, coaxing and teasing him intensely until he's fit to burst. Then, as he reaches the edge, I sweetly inform him that bad deeds do not go unpunished, and then giggling with truimph as he groans in his dread and frustration, I hang up, or leave. I further deny him the opportunity to speak with or see me for at least a week afterwards. Temporary banishment is the most oft prescribed method of retribution for unauthorized release. how often do you remind him that he cannot cum? what language do you use? Constant richly worded reminders, sugar coated with teasing hints of promise are necessary to maintain the proper level of tension within the slave. In cooing tones I encourage the jerky boy to "hold his mud for Mistress". I also remind him over and over that I'll give him his milking in my time and in my fashion, and that his seed is mine to harvest as I see fit. My tone is often quite firm at this point. I sometimes coax him to build up the biggest messiest load ever for me, pitting him against the preformance of other slaves. It simply compells them to try to be Sophie's Best Boy. do you ever trick him to think you will let him cum only to deny him in the end? Indeed I do. Its actually one of my favorite games to play with badboys who've grown complacent and secure in their milking schedules. Its a stong message to them that my whims are my whims and they're fools to try and anticipate my actions. do you ever over stimulate him on purpose while telling him not to cum while knowing he will be unable to resist your stimulation? I love this game! I approach them in a soft sultry manner, manipulating their pull toy slowly and skillfully. I begin to talk about how heavy and full their sack is, how backed up they are, how wonderful a good hard cum would be. They heartily agree, bucking upward into my wicked fist. Then I tell them timing is everything and they need to be patient and hold it for me. I make it very clear that no matter what I do, its imperative that they control their selfish urge to release. I remind them of their need for me in their life, how much in my debt they are for all I've done for them. I ask them if they can do this one little thing for me. All the while I am stroking them in a deliberate, unyielding manner. The end result is that they are helpless to resist the need to ejaculate. Its an intense mind game from which I eternally emerge victorious. Surrender at what point do you wish him to begin to beg? Usually about halfway through a session. However, slaves who've been on long term restriction generally start begging much sooner. how do you handle begging for orgasm? I giggle and sensually scold and shame my naughty little darlings for being so needy. But, of course, I love to hear them beg. is there something he could say that would lead you to have mercy and let him cum? Not a thing, but they aren't aware of this fact. do you engage in inducing ejaculation without orgasm? what are your specific methods? No. The Aftermath How do the subjects respond to you when you send them away? Whether they've been granted sweet release or not, my badboys leave me grudgingly, grateful for the time they spent with me and always trying for a few extra moments of my attention. How do you think this treatment effects their future sex life? I firmly believe that it improves their control which can only mean good things for the women in their personal lives. It also gives them a higher purpose when engaging in solo lovemaking. Men love to masturbate for a woman. What % of men do you feel have increased their lust via this treatment? It has increased the lust factor in each and every client I've worked with. If they thought they were relentlessly horny prior to my training, they know better after a few sessions with Sophie. Harnessing the sexual energy inherent within these poor brutes and giving it a focus is potent therapy. Mistress Eve Evans email Address: MsEveEvans@aol.com Web space URL: http://www.xtratalk.com Phone: 805-474-9934 Address: 1534 Plaza Lane, No. 310, Burlingame CA, 94010 I love to play "Mommy-Dommy" to my beloved sissy-boys. Sometimes slaves are not sexually intellectual enough to escape from their mother's firm bosom. Diapering and other forms of roleplay fantasy are especially rewarding here. I am quite skilled at providing my slave boys with a warm and safe environment. My darling sweethearts always know that they are completely safe with me during our sessions, something vital to the Mistress-Slave relationship in ANY scenario. For bad boys who need a firmer hand, I am well-versed in more strict and "punishing" play. BDSM, CBT, etc...I LOVE watching as my slaves beg for mercy before me. I find it amusing and very stimulating...;) I primarily provide phone services, but I do occasionally find the written word is just as stimulating. It's all in my control, to disperse as I see fit; sometimes the lilt and pitch of my voice is fulfilling to me, other times I prefer to simply let my fingers and mind take control and write the powerful and effective words. The Raw Numbers Does the slave cum at the end? Oh, that depends on how good the slave has behaved for me and whether denial is part of his fantasy. Occasionally, I find it very rewarding to simply tease my boys along, then snap my fingers and refuse the "needed" release and pleasure. 85% of my slaves do come at the end of sessions regularly. Length of time of the ordeal Anywhere from 15 minutes to week-long abbreviated sessions. % of the time the slave is hard Hee, hee...I have little use for the flaccid member. However, it is a joy to watch and listen as slaves are forced between two spectrums...one of complete release, the other of torturous pain and withholding. I'd say my boys were erect 80% of the session on average. # of times the subject is brought to hardness Anywhere from one to five times in a typical 30-minute phone session. # of times the subject is brought flaccid With those slaves for whom this is a requirement, two to three times per average 30-minute session. # of times the subject is brought to the edge of orgasm without release Oh, my...this is the game! On average, up to ten times per session. As we approach the end of sessions, I find it very amusing to taunt and tease my slaves along; making them think total pleasure is a snap away, then refusing it. Oohh, that's the fun of it! Is there a punishment for pre-cum? Yes, always, darling!! ;) I have to say honestly that most of my boys are either spanked or jerked without lubrication at least twice in a typical session. The severity of the punishment increases for slaves who enjoy rough-style BDSM. For my sissies, diapering and/or verbal humiliation is enough to reduce them to hysteria. For those who love public humiliation, a masturbation session in front of an open picture window is sufficient. Is ejaculation without orgasm induced? No. Does the session involve genital bondage? With my kinky S&M enthusiasts, YES!! CBT is a wonderful way of controlling the slave to honor me as his one and only. I love the sight of weights hanging from a man's balls, forcing him to bow before me in agony. My devilish side LOVES this!! Any and all toys my boys need to apply to themselves to stimulate and/or amuse me are appreciated and encouraged. This includes cock cages, whips, etc. My slaves need a good imagination...or have the strength to handle my own desired punishments with whatever tools I deem worthy enough. Are blue balls a goal? Yes, with my severe BDSM slaves. Otherwise, no--unless requested by the slave prior to the session, devoid of the fantasy techniques involved. Is lubrication used to prevent rawness or is this a desirable effect? Yes, unless the slave is fond of jerking himself raw and tattered. That appeals to me as well, hmmm... Do you include CBT intermixed with arousal states? Hmmm...not usually. I work little with the limp cock and really have no personal use for it. I do make some exceptions and pull on a slave's flaccid member, forcing it into a cage or simple bondage, sometimes. If so, what CBT methods are used? Gentle to medium-strength pulling, cage torture, rope play, etc. The Scene What Role do you play in the scene: Mistress/slave, Nurse/patient, etc. ? Mistress/slave, Nurse/patient, etc.? In a typical Mistress/Slave scene, I am a firm, occasionally VERY strong-willed, dominatrix. These scenes typically are set in a dungeon of some sort. For Teacher/Student fantasies, a classroom with the usual scattering of tools (rulers, erasers, etc). will suffice. In Mommy or Auntie/Naughty Boy scenarios, homes and bedrooms serve nicely. Nurse/Patient scenarios take place in offices and/or hospitals, usually with a very firm Nurse at the Patient's side. Bondage How is he bound? Please describe his degree of mobility. Oohh, anything from slight restraint with soft and comforting scarves to hardened steel chains. Rope serves nicely; I love the sound of a slave bound tightly or loosely with that particular material. If there is more than one position please describe and indicate how long they are held in each position. I am especially fond of tying slaves to bedposts in non-dungeon scenarios. Usually, the slave is confined to the bed via the posts or baseboard. In dungeon scenarios, anything from a strap-down table to a wall studded with chains is handy. In schoolroom scenarios, the teacher's desk is sufficient. Visual Stimulation How are you dressed? In Mommy roles, very sexily with tight skirts, low-cut tops and the ever-present high heels. My long hair is usually tied back in a bun or braid. For Teacher roles, I wear a very tight-fitting skirt that's to my knees and a suitcoat, buttoned to the base of my breastbone with nothing underneath. Nurse roles involve a white nursing uniform, usually TIGHT-FITTING and very high, stiletto heels. For Dominatrix roles placed in the dungeon, I wear a black leather outfit, usually comprised of a bustier and tight skirt (very short). My hair is free-flowing. at what points do you allow him to gaze and lust for you? during arousal, during cool down, both? My slaves are allowed to look upon their Mistress' beauty several times in a session; the most important and strategic time for them to look upon me is during the beginning of a session, or the "introduction." I adore teasing my sweet subs by flaunting my breasts, hair, legs...you name it. I typically command them to cast their eyes downward in the middle of a session and punishments are dealt out if they do not obey. Slaves usually are instructed to fixate their gaze upon me while coming, except in sessions where that is not pertinent. please list all other visual stimulations he experiences. Toys of all sorts can be used to tease slaves visually, along with the aura and "look" of the location and setting of the fantasy. Sound Stimulations what kinds of verbal stimulants do you use? My voice is my most powerful weapon and instrument in phone sessions. It has a lot to do with tone, pitch, word structure...I take pride in an extended and knowledgeable vocabulary. I find my slaves are most appreciative of the unique sound of my sessions; I usually take phone fantasies to an intellectual level and have little use for clientele who are simply interested in "coming and hanging up." I work very hard to make sure the fantasies I provide are original and of a creative and intelligent nature. do you use silence? Oohh, I love teasing bad boys with a simple, small pause in the middle of sessions. The unexpected hush causes their minds to wander and wonder what grand torturous plans I have in store for them. what kinds of sounds do you like him to make? That depends on the slave. Some are quite verbal and love to interact during play, others are quiet and prefer to speak little. I do especially enjoy the joyous sound a slave makes while coming...I know then that my sub has walked away a happy and fulfilled man. do you gag him? Panty gagging is fun--I also enjoy more harsh forms of sound restraint, such as ball gags and the like. I do prefer the soft feel of my panties tucked safely in my slaves' mouths. There's a fell that is erotic and feminine to the scene with that type of tool. please list all other sound stimulations he experiences. Well, the sound of high stilettos tapping on a bare floor or the sound of a slap on bare skin with either an open palm or toy make for delightful additions. Frictional Stimulations how much direct stimulation do you provide? Occasionally I will take pleasure in stimulating and arousing my slaves by hand or perhaps teasing them with my mouth. I never perform full-out blow jobs, but I do taunt them with a little brush of my lips against their hard cocks. I prefer to arouse them by hand, gently rubbing or pulling on their extended members. For sessions that require a firmer touch, I delight in forgoing the use of lube and simply stretch that cock for all it can take. ;) what percentage of the time that he is hard are you providing that stimulation? My slaves are always erect when their Mistress is touching them, bringing them to the brink of ecstasy. does he have provide his own stimulation - stroking for you? Yes! I truly love forced masturbation and exhibition to please my needs. I love the sight of a man tugging that tool for my enjoyment. I find it very arousing, indeed! how do you know when he is truly on the brink? There are numerous ways you can tell. The sounds a slave makes, the words he says, his breathing...I find his inhalation and exhalation to be most telling. When slaves begin to take in short, quickened breaths, I KNOW that holding out much longer is becoming a decreasing possibility...;) Oh, that can range from play with toys (such as those cute bath "puffs" that are sooo popular now...a little hint--they have MANY interesting uses...;) ), to simple manual arousal by humping my leg. please list all other direct frictional stimulations he experiences. Instinct and knowledge of the slave is the deciding factor with "regulars." Once any Mistress, phone or otherwise, does one or two sessions with a bad boy lasting over 30 minutes, she can tell from her familiarity with him when to stimulate and arouse manually or otherwise. Psychology is a controlling factor at work here; I begin to learn more about my boys after each session has expired. Controlling his mind is he under strict orders not to cum? Absolutely! 100 percent of the time, I inform clients that they will not be allowed to come until I give them permission. I accomplish that by installing a "countdown" system: I begin at 5 (or 10, it varies) and instruct my slave to hold his come in until I reach one. what are the consequences if he disobeys? Let's just say that during our next session, I will have many "surprises" for my slave tailored to my enjoyment and dispersal...also, a slave who disobeys may be banished from calling or contacting me for a week or more. That way, I will know when the stray returns, he will have been denied a sufficient amount of my attention for a long enough period of time to accept and obey my strict orders. how often do you remind him that he cannot cum? what language do you use? I find teasing is the best route. I use colorful, taunting language like "ohh, my bad little slave boy...I can see that it's becoming difficult for you to control that cock of yours, isn't it??" do you ever trick him to think you will let him cum only to deny him in the end? With slaves who enjoy denial as a part of their mainstay fantasy, yes. Otherwise no, unless a client alerts me to his desire for such an act. My mood is dependent on this issue as well; sometimes, I simply enjoy watching a slave reach the brink and then hanging up. do you ever over stimulate him on purpose while telling him not to cum while knowing he will be unable to resist your stimulation? All the time! It's a wonderful way to tease and manipulate my slaves' desires. It also adds to the fantasy; men are contacting me because they want and NEED to be pushed to the edge and then told to control their pleasure. Surrender at what point do you wish him to begin to beg? About 5 minutes before the end of the session with typical slaves; however, I do enjoy listening to my slaves beg throughout the session, in some cases. It especially tickles me in intensive BDSM scenes and humiliation scenarios. how do you handle begging for orgasm? With much delight!! ;) I am here to provide bad boys with an outlet to achieve orgasm, but since this is a domme/sub relationship, I adore listening as powerful men beg for permission to come in my panties or at my feet. is there something he could say that would lead you to have mercy and let him cum? After a very intensive and pleasurable scene, I will allow a slave to beg repeatedly and then achieve ecstasy. However, what my slaves say has really no bearing on what I actually DO, although some do not realize this. It's just a game of cat-and-mouse between Mistresses and submissives. do you engage in inducing ejaculation without orgasm? what are your specific methods? No, I do not. The Aftermath How do the subjects respond to you when you send them away? Usually asking and pleading for more time with me! I encourage them to replenish and rejuvenate their fantasies and speak to me when they are ready to burst with ecstasy after being forced to restrain themselves for so long. This time frame can last a couple of days for "needy" slaves to months for others who require that severe of a wait. How do you think this treatment effects their future sex life? I think it helps tremendously. Instead of withholding their fantasies from others (spouses, partners, one-night-stands), slaves are allowed to experience their ultimate desires in a safe and private environment. What % of men do you feel have increased their lust via this treatment? Probably 90 percent of those I have spoken with have increased their desire and lust levels. Once they achieve and experience the ultimate in their fantasies, it makes them yearn for more. Mistress Eve Evans thoroughly enjoys fantasies incorporating intelligent and smoldering fem dom. My personal favorite scenario revolves around maternal domming; child roleplay and infantilism hold a special place in my heart. I understand the misleading and widely-held notion that this type of erotica is greeted with; it is NOT child porn, but a consensual fantasy between adults! I have many slaves who are simply not ready to leave their mommy's TLC. However, I also enjoy controlling slaves who prefer a firmer hand when being disciplined. BDSM and CBT are two ways of "helping" my bad boys learn self-control. I am a multi-skilled phone Mistress and purveyor of the written domination tale. Mistress Infinity (Ms. C) I enjoy psychological domination the most and use any tools/props necessary to achieve that goal, including but not limited to: tease, nurse exams, sensory deprivation, pain thresholds and hypnosis/mind control. I am the author of the classic "By the Balls" true story of my C&BT techniques. I am a lifestyle/professional Mistress. My main thrust is training submissives/slaves servitude oriented techniques in the service/worship of a dedicated lifestyle Mistress. I do client sessions on a limited basis when they express interest in some of my favorite play activities as outlined in this questionnaire. As a play Mistress, I am a safe sadist. Limits respected but tested. I am a BBW lifestyle/professional Mistress living in Maine, USA. I am tall, full figured, long brown hair, blue eyes, like sexy lingerie and servitude from a malesub. I live 24/7 with my two femsubs. You would be expected to get along with them, do chores, submit to my every whim, serve me and contribute to the household just like the rest of us. No freeloaders! Part time will be considered on a contribution basis, full time will be contracted chattel to me. Duties include cleaning, cooking, maid service, secretarial/computer service, driving, errands, personal servitude and fulfilling my many dominant needs. I am also a Female Supremacist and Wiccan High Priestess. Email for instructions and to set up a telephone interview. I can be softly sensual or wildly sadistic, but always SSC. Once you give complete power exchange, your soul is mine. I have 10 femdom related mailing lists, including one for HypnoDommes. Email for further information or visit my sites. email Address: mistressinfiniti@hotmail.com Web space URLs: Femina Society Study Hall http://www.freeyellow.com/members4/kalidurga Femina Society Mother House Orientation http://www.angelfire.com/me/katilla Phone: (207)786-4936, at second dial tone press 113 Hours 8-10PM EST. Address: Ms.C. Deering, POB 382 Augusta, ME, 04332, USA The Raw Numbers Does the slave cum at the end? Sometimes, it is not the goal. It also depends on my mood and just how sadistic I am feeling. Length of time of the ordeal Several hours to several weeks. % of the time the slave is hard At least 75% or I play harder. # of times the subject is brought to hardness Continuously as I like to build up the frustration, then make him stop almost at the point of no return. # of times the subject is brought flaccid Whenever he gets too close to orgasm. Permission must be obtained from me for orgasm. That way I can accurately assess how close they are when I deny it. # of times the subject is brought to the edge of orgasm without release As many as possible, this is the part I love the most. Is there a punishment for pre-cum? Yes, and the punishment will fit the crime. Is ejaculation without orgasm induced? Only through pain. Does the session involve genital bondage? Always, I adore creating fanciful webs of bondage. Are blue balls a goal? If I am feeling particularly evil. Is lubrication used to prevent rawness or is this a desirable effect? Most often I allow lubrication unless the slave is being punished. Do you include CBT intermixed with arousal states? Oh yes! If so, what CBT methods are used? Penis twirl, tack strap, tack sheath, rubber bands, finger nails, needles, whip, crop, tug-o-war, clamps, etc., oh, the many delightful ways! I am also Co-Inventor of the Original Kali's Teeth Bracelet anti-erection device. The Scene What Role do you play in the scene: Mistress/slave, Nurse/patient, etc. ? Mistress, Governess, Nurse, Aunt, Interrogator, Punisher, Matron, Sacrificial Priestess, Slave Owner, Guard Bondage How is he bound? Please describe his degree of mobility. Bondage of varying degrees is a continuous part of a tease/torment session. Mobility from slightly restricted to no mobility at all. If there is more than one position please describe and indicate how long they are held in each position. 4 point bondage is my favorite and from this I can create my web. Visual Stimulation How are you dressed? According to role, but most often Frederick's type lingerie, long sheer pegnoirs, sometimes topless. at what points do you allow him to gaze and lust for you? during arousal, during cool down, both? Throughout as long as he doesn't touch me without permission. please list all other visual stimulations he experiences. I sometimes allow the slave to watch my two slavegirls partake in Lesbian lovemaking. I also use hypnotic devices. Sound Stimulations what kinds of verbal stimulants do you use? I like to use verbal humiliation. do you use silence? Sometimes, I also enjoy mood music (Enja, Enigma, etc.) what kinds of sounds do you like him to make? I enjoy hearing the slave tell me how cruel/diabolical/sexy I am. I enjoy hearing him plead for mercy when he will not get any. do you gag him? If he gets too loud, I don't like to alert the neighbors to my games. Frictional Stimulations how much direct stimulation do you provide? As little as necessary, unless I am wearing a tack glove. what percentage of the time that he is hard are you providing that stimulation? Indirectly all of the time, directly, hmmm, 10%? does he have provide his own stimulation - stroking for you? When told to do so, I enjoy making my slave kneel at my feet masturbating while I laugh at him. When he cums in his hand I direct him to look at the results of his lust and then eat it. how do you know when he is truly on the brink? By the trobbing of his penis and his asking me for permission to cum. how do you know when to start and stop stimulations? Careful observation and years of experience. please list all other direct frictional stimulations he experiences. Controlling his mind is he under strict orders not to cum? Yes. what are the consequences if he disobeys? Punishment in a manner unappealing to the particular slave. how often do you remind him that he cannot cum? what language do you use? Often. I remind him in a stern voice that he had better not cum or he will certainly be punished and I will make sure he doesn't enjoy the punishment. do you ever trick him to think you will let him cum only to deny him in the end? Oh yes! Great fun. do you ever over stimulate him on purpose while telling him not to cum while knowing he will be unable to resist your stimulation? When I am in a very evil mood. Surrender at what point do you wish him to begin to beg? When he feels he can no longer hold off the orgasm. how do you handle begging for orgasm? As my mood dictates, I will allow it if I am pleased with the session so far and the slave in question, I will deny it if I feel he needs to suffer longer for me. is there something he could say that would lead you to have mercy and let him cum? No, I do not enjoy being manipulated. Pleas for mercy invariably fall on deaf ears. do you engage in inducing ejaculation without orgasm? what are your specific methods? Only in cases of clinical milking in which he is made to ejaculate into the toilet with no sexual/erotic stimulation or content whatsoever. The Aftermath How do the subjects respond to you when you send them away? Some wish to stay longer, but all become completely enthralled. How do you think this treatment effects their future sex life? I believe they become addicted to this particular scene and increase their need for it. What % of men do you feel have increased their lust via this treatment? That is hard to answer, no pun intended. Perhaps 70%?