My typical sexual encounter with my wife starts with hugging, kissing, touching in an unhurried manner. She then asks for the lubricant. We have found Albolene to be magic. It is sold in the U.S. as a makeup remover but is the best sexual lubricant for hj's ever discovered. (it is petroleum based so do not use with condoms). She takes some on her fingers and applies it to my penis and starts to stroke it to maximum hardness. I have sensitive nipples so she starts to lick and suck them as well. I usually am on my back, slightly turned toward her with my chest so she can get a good shot at my nipples. She does like my balls very much (I am very surprised at this). She strokes my penis with one hand and lubricates and rubs the base of my penis all the way back to where it ends near the anus. It is a really unique sensation when she strokes my penis and rubs up on the base at the same time. I feels like there is a never-ending flow of fluid and is very erotic to me. She changes strokes frequently and gets me close to orgasm many times. She gets excited as I get close so when she wants to have coital sex, I willingly oblige. We have sex until she cums and then I roll off and she resumes stroking my penis. I am really hard now because I know that she will continue the stroking until I shoot off. Just knowing that she wants me to cum in her hands is very exciting. She gets me close and I tell her to slow down or stop, then she starts again until I am about to cum again and again. When I can no longer stand it, I let her continue until I am just about to cum and then tell her to go very slow. She strokes me very slow and I go off the edge. When I go over the edge, I tell her to "hold it". She then kind of pulls straight up on my penis against the head. Not too much, just a steady pull against the head. This delays the spurting contractions but not the internal steady contraction and the pleasure waves. When the spurts start, they are huge. I am not young but I frequently squirt over my head to the headboard. What I think happens is that by delaying the squirting contractions, the fluid produced by the steady internal contraction has time to build up in the place that is later squeezed by the squirting contractions. Anyway, the first three squirts are very strong and after the fourth contraction, I need her to stroke me fast to finish my orgasm. It is important to completely relax your body when you start to cum. It is pure pleasure to feel all the sensations happening in your body when you approach and go past the point of no return. I jus t love my hj's.